Friendships come and go. You have no obligation to stay friends with this guy--his behavior towards you dictates that pretty clearly. But evidently you ARE going to have to make this more clear to HIM. Write a letter, send an email, make a phone call. But make it clear that he is not to contact you.
And above all else, abaya, you should not feel bad about this. This guy ruined the friendship, not you. You don't owe him anything. So end it, walk away, and be happy. Trust me, you're not an asshole.
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