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Originally Posted by Martel
we're saying we'd like to be able to talk to our SOs and tell them "here is what this guy is trying to do" without people second guessing our trust or security. .
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Unless they tell you specificlly they are out to nail your SO, how do you know what is exactly going thru their head... Seems like assumptions are being made... and - not saying you are -- at all - but are those assumptions being made because it's something thatt he boyfriend in question would actually do....
You should be able to talk to your SO about anything... but there are some are of the opinion that she just shouldn't see him anymore.. Sorry, she's not 12 and being put on restriction... Express the concern as to how it makes YOU feel - not what theo ther guy might or might not be doing... and allow the girlfriend to make her own choice...
It still comes down to trust...
How would you feel if your girlfriend, who was maybe a little insecure, said she thought your best friend from childhood was trying to get into your pants... Trust... If the boy respects the girlfriend- he's not gonna do anything... no matter what the friend throws at him...