I think Mal hit it on the head- as a woman, I would hope another woman in a comitted relationship wouldn't be stupid enough to hump another guy just because he was nice to her. Like, at what point does he stop being friendly and cross over into "potential amateur gynocologist"? Are the clothes on or off at that point?
I think if you're relationship is seeing your SO, be it man or woman, spending a significant portion of their time with a member of the oppsite sex and you're not there- there's a problem. Unless you've sat down, talked about it, and there's a reason for it (he's gay, she's asexual, they've been best friends since they were two), there's a problem.
My two cents as a woman.
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