It is all about trust though..
You boys might think you know what the other boys are thinking... but it still comes down to trust... If she respects you... and it's really not a matter of love at all.. then she is not going to notice the other person's attention... and just think that he's nice...
If she falls 'prey' to his niceness-- well - she was never yours to begin with...
People can only do to you what you allow them to do... Unless she's tied down and sedated - she's not being taken advantage of...
By pointing it out-- it comes across as not trusting...
You have to trust her to do the right thing...
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