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Im not one of the "enlightend" ones on here, so here's my take on it. Yes you have to trust your SO but you dont have to trust her friends. If some guy is scamming your girl. Its not between you and your girlfriend. Its between you and the guy. If he really wants to be JUST friends, he shouldn't mind hanging out with her and YOU. Thats your opportunity to take him off to the side and let him know how things work in your world. I say this, because other than in class or work situations, I have never wanted to be "just friends" with a girl, and I find it very unlikely than any guy truely does. He might settle for just friends, but Im willing to bet that most likely he has more objectives than that. This all only applies to "new guys" if hes a childhood friend, then theres not much you can do about it but tolerate it.
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