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Please help me.
I would appreciate any advice you guys are willing to post.
I am a married man for the past 7 years and I have two wonderful children. For the last few years I have grown increasingly distant from my wife. It is mainly because we share hardly anything in common except for our children. Recently at work a new girl has started and she occasionally has to work in my office. This girl is crazy hot. She is only 19 and I am 30. We talk all the time and share many interests. We always make sure we get each other lunch and occasionally bring in breakfast for each other. I find myself constantly thinking about her day and night. I ahve sworn to myself not to let her get to me, but it is not working. It is driving me crazy. I would love to be with her in any way possible. I am pretty sure she has interest in me although I can tell she is reluctant to admit it since there is a large age gap according to her. Everyone at my work thinks she wants me and I tell them they are wrong just so I don't feel like a fool and admit that I want her to.
I want to sit down with her and ask her straight out how she feels. I am hesitant to do this because it could create a very unhealthy working enviroment. If she says that she doesn't have any feelings for me, I would be screwed because I would have to face her every day. I think that this girl has it all. She has completely taken over my thoughts for a couple of weeks. I dream about her almost every night. I don't want to fuck it up.
What do you guys think I should do?
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