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I have the same sort of problem with my gf, etc. and I do realize that it is a problem of trust. The thing is, attraction is something foreign to me in terms of a women's perspective, as in I don't understand how a woman seperates her view of a bf versus her view of a good friend that's a boy. I don't understand what makes for example me a romantic interest and some other guy a non-romantic interest. And it's this uncertainty that makes it hard for me to not be paranoid or a little bit jealous at the smallest things.
I just simply don't know when my gf might be attracted to another guy that's not me because I don't know the criteria for attraction. Anyways, this post was probably immensely confusing, but any advice?
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