Originally Posted by onesnowyowl

Um, how about none of the above? I dislike extremes extremely.

I like people who view life with a moderate view, meaning they'll try something and if they like it, do it in moderation. I don't want to be with someone who isn't at least somewhat adventurous and willing to try new things. I also don't want to be with someone who has some kind of stuck-up high and mighty ideal about what sex is/what drugs do, because I've done both, and I'm not interested in being in a relationship with someone who is most likely going to judge me based on past/current behavior.

I like sex and drugs have had their place in my life. Personally, I want someone who can say the same. In my current relationship, he's done more of both, but I still wouldn't consider him "highly experienced." And that's exactly what I want.