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Originally Posted by innovis
I can't believe that most of the responses in this thread essentially advocate not telling your partner how you feel (because that was what the majority of my question was, not a question of trust, which I even stated). What is the point of being in a relationship with someone if you can't even talk about how you feel with them?
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The simple truth is... that if you tell someone of either gender that you don't like them hanging out with people of the opposite gender - it's sending up a major red flag that you do not trust them... and that you have no faith in the relationship.
You have to ask yourself why you don't like them hanging out with the opposite gender? Any friends of the opposite gender you have - are you trying to put the make on? If that's true, then... welll... I have nothing to say... if it's not true, then why not give the other person the same courtesy.