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i could be wrong but...
It seems to me like this guy is after your sex. It seems crude and mean to say this but from your side of the story I have the feeling that he really just wants to have sex with you or anyone at any opportunity he can. He says he has like 5 other girls after him, that doesn't seem to me like a good life style for you to be involved, at least you know you don't want to be one of 5 girls that he shares his bed with. Either way, it seems to be the situation.
Clearly you still have a lot of feelings left over with this guy, but I feel that you just need to get over him and move on. Despite what he might tell you in terms of 'missing you' etc, it's all a story I think he is giving you in order to keep you dangling on the line. Sounds harsh and heartless, I hope I am wrong about him.
If you want to continue to be with him I think you really need to be clear with him what you want. If you want to get back with him exclusively then tell him. Otherwise he's going to string you along until you've finished your whole degree and he has taken all that time from you when you could be out meeting other men, making new relationships and seeing how many fish there are out in the sea yourself.
Anyway, my thoughts at least
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