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Originally Posted by NotAnAlias
Today she tells me that part of her doesn't want to break up with me because she's scared she won't find a guy she clicked with so well, but the other part of her is saying that she "can't continue to go out with me", that she "doesn't like me, like me" that she "isn't feeling the same" as she did and that "at present, we aren't anything more than friends".
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Dude... end the relationship. As you get more relationships under your belt, your warning bells will start responding to stuff like that. Apparently they aren't calibrated yet. 
Also, never be ashamed of your sexuality or sexual desires. Her acceptance and then withdrawl repeated ad nasueam shows she has issues she needs to deal with.
Somehow I get the feeling that you aren't really going to listen to the advice and you'll just get strung along for a while longer before she breaks up with you, so I'll just sigh and point you to what BigBen said rather than restating it and relating my own experiences.
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