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Originally Posted by rofgilead
If you have a really strong relationship, and she really loves you, I don't see why if you told her your feelings and asked her not to hang out with that guy that she shouldn't do that? A relationship is a two-person thing, and if one of you is doing something that the other doesn't like/enjoy I think it is fine to talk about it. Other people on this thread seem to be acting like its all a game where if you act a certain way you'll be the fool, so you have to play it cool and set things up against another guy. That is stupid. Relationships should not be games! They should be open, honest, and communicative.
What happens if she is all stressed out, there is alcohol involved, and something happens? Why even have you girlfriend around a guy like that? Sounds stupid to me.
Just my thoughts.
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Because there is a line easily crossed between asking someone not to hang out with a friend, and being controlling and dictating all sorts of things that it's really not their place to dictate. She's not a child, and likely not an idiot. Even if she's in a relationship, it's still *her life*, and she gets to make those choices. Even if by some folks' standards she makes a poor choice, it's still her choice.