even people in conservative backgrounds do it, they're just better at hiding it.
I was in quite the same situation as you at around age 13-18 at first my mother **could** catch me, but I got better at concealing it, and I got my own pc, which lead to quite a bit of borwsing and downloading. I think the most I ever had was about 12 gigs of porn (pictures, videos). in addition to a few DVDs and magazines that I had managed to aquire
Then when I was 18, I got a girlfriend, and after we started having sex, I ditched all of the computer stuff, along with most of my magazines and DVDs (not by any request from her, on my own accord)
I think it would be good for you to have some clean "dirty magazines" like playboy that he could look at. I can definetely see that in retrospect, porn warped my perception of sex...
if you wanted to be bold, you could just come right out and talk to him about your experience...dont do rash things like take away the pc, etc.
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