I am thankful for you guys sharing your stories! Lets me know that I did have it pretty easy, but you most def. have my sympathy for having to deal with soo much crap! But I'm glad you are all here to tell us about it.
My stories aren't as tramatic, but I'm definatly glad they are 'ex's'.
Mr. Tough Guy: This guy was gorgeous. Italian, lean, tall and had a great face. Only problem was it made him cocky and I guess he thought because he was built he could put a girl in her place. Well I was 15 or 16 and I was a brute. I had two younger brothers and we fought a lot growing up. I knew how to defend myself and I think that made him mad. So he'd keep trying to pin me down and I'd keep fighting out of it. Needless to say he took off one day back to his Mom's in Pontiac (where he tells me he's well known...can we say gangsta wanna be anyone?) Anyhow, he's dad lived near me and when I couldn't get ahold of him I ran into his Dad and I get to find out that his dumb as is in jail for getting drunk and shooting a horse. A HORSE! Yeah, what a thug, you shot a completely innocent animal. What I regret is that I really liked this guy, we had fun together but after this happened he showed back up thinking I didn't know anything and tried to get in my pants while my now hubby was two doors away at my mom's house, with my daughter because now I wasn't a virgin. What an ass.
Mr. Nice Guy: I still talk to this person, he really is a great guy. We were dating when I was about 17. Met him through a friend at school, he was a year ahead of me and unlike anyone I'd met before. He was nice, sweet and could talk for hours. I didn't think he was a virgin but just found out he was. Anyways, I didn't know at the time, but he was also dating another girl at school at the time. It was never said that wasn't allowed, but whatever. I wasn't sleeping with him so I didn't care. Well I went to a party, and the other girl was there. We spent an hour talking about dating the same guy and how much we care for him. I told her I haven't slept with him nor did I plan to. Well guess who took that and ran with it...not him but her. She slept with him the first chance she had after that. What pissed me off was that the guy comes to my b-day party and decided that was the time to tell me that we can't see each other anymore because the girl wants to be exclusive. What makes me mad about this is, he didn't actually want to break up with me, nor to be with her, but because he was mister nice guy he couldn't say no, because he didn't want to hurt HER feelings. Needless to say she tore him up and left him with huge problems. I just wished he would have grown a back bone. He's still stuck in a shit relationship and always has been as long as I've known him. I guess this isn't that bad, but it sucked at the time and I wished I'd have left it alone. I still harbor feelings for this guy and we talk on a regular basis.
Ok I'm done boring ya
I hope to read some more stories about how you have survived the past men in your lives!