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everyone has their own thoughts on what it means to be a girl's friend. While I do agree with ladder theory for the most part, I believe it is possible to change the situation.
The only requirement is that she needs to have feelings for u, maybe the feelings are pushed way back, but at some point in ur "friendship" with her, she will need to have some sort of emotional connection to you, however small it might be.
Ok with that said, you have to push her harder and make her want you more than just a friend. First, you have to take her off the pedistal. Stop thinking about how amazing she is, stop thinking that you can't get her, instead, concentrait on your own qualities and why she should work hard to get YOU. Why would a girl want a guy that nobody wants? A girl wants a guy that is desirable, and you have to make urself desireable to her.
How to do this:
Stop calling her and seeing her so much. Keep your life as busy as possible, no more running around doing errands for her, remember, u have a life now, u're too busy for that. Then, make friends with other girls, talk to as many girls as you can, ESPECIALLY infront of her. And if she asks you about it, just be like...oh yah they're just some girls I met one day blah blah, play it off as if it was no big deal.
Just remember, your main goal is to make urself desireable to her, and if she's ever had feelings for you, they'll come back out and she'll let you know it. I would let her do the work, let her make the first move, let her tell u how she feels, and if ur lucky, you'll get her.
But if she only truely thinks of you as a friend, then move on and learn from ur mistake, being friends with girls u like will only get u fucked in the end...and not by her.
kk just my two cents, good luck
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