This might be the grey area of cheating. I'd think she would be mad, but wouldn't break up over it. I'm sure there was no emotional connection, and the girl didn't get off from doing this to him.
But if he isn't telling his wife, then he is assuming that it isn't ok (probably because most women would consider it cheating). If they defined cheating as only having sex or oral without the other's knowledge, then he is fine. The pool boy or lawn mower guy might be getting some $$$ from his wife for some 'massages', and he would have to be ok with that.
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