i think no matter what it should be something you realize..... gettin sexual gratification from someone that isn't yourself or from your SO is cheating. Some people can take that toextremes saying that porn is cheating, and that's perhaps a gray area. I personally don't think it's cheating to polish the knob when watching porn. But going to a massage parlor and getting a handjob? Please, this guy cheated on his wife and what's worse to me is he paid someone to do something he could have done himself... that makes it worse to me. He should have gone home and fired off some knuckle children out of the baby canon instead of getting someone else to for him. He wouldn't be trying to justify it to his friends with those terms if he didn't feel guilty about it. Then again I cannot speak for the guy.
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