From what you've said, it sounds like the guy is trying to work her. That "if you ever break up" line is about as manipulative as they come. But who cares what kind of guy he is? What matters is the kind of girl she is.
What kind of guy will do all this stuff? A pathetic, lonely, miserable excuse for a man. Don't be mad at him. Have pity on him.
If you think about it, her obliviousness actually works in your favor. Think about how shocked and upset she'll be when he finally makes an unequivocal move. You might want to talk to her about sparing her that pain, actually.
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