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My best friend was in a similar predicament --not exact but somewhere near the same type of girl... I became his strength through the whole ordeal..and that's all you can do for your friend--make sure he knows the facts and everytime he gets weak, give him a good smack upside the head... No seriously, nothing you say will make him see things until he sees things for himself. This will take time, and a lot of patience on your part.
On a good note, my best friend eventually got over it, he's a lot stronger, a lot more aware and a LOT less stupid.....
Just don't give up on him that's all...
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The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself, especially if that means completely redefining the world you've come to know.
Don't look too hard, I'm right in front of you.
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