These trips down memory lane are such fun--
Why I feel the need to confess such stupidity is beyond me, but if it saves someone else from making the same mistakes - it's all good
Mr. I'm Not really Over my ex... Oooh he was fun... Nice guy for the most part, but completely and utterly lacking in backbone where women were concerned... if you wanted a good lap dog, he was the guy for the job... personally that bored me - but before i had the chance to kick him to the curb... I met him while out with some friends as he's nursing his broken heart - his girlfriend (who was also his 3rd cousin -- RED FLAG!!!) had just dumped him a few weeks before and he wasn't totally over it when he started seeing me (and I wasn't rebound woman either -he had dated a few women in between.) The reason why his cousin dumped him - -was because he wasn't dangerous enough - (he was gainfully employed, he lived on his own, owned a late model paid off car, credit, and could speak in complete sentences - but was a l ittle boring - and boring i guess was bad)
Anyhow - he was fun to be with and talked a lot and we got a long really well - he also told me he loved me on the second date (RED FLAG AGAIN) So -- love me dude was supposed to show up at my place at about 9ish one night as we were going out.... 9 came and went - 10 came and went-- 11 came and went - as did many many many phone calls to him... At midnight i finally left him one more message saying I was going out - if he wanted to see me - i'd be at XXXXX... I got home at 3 or 4ish.. no messages from him - i went to bed - and to be honest - was a little upset - and really thought perhaps he was dead in a car accident - it wasn't like him not to call.
The next night i get a phone call from him-- he's crying.... OK whatsamatta.... and what happened to you last night... (at this point I'm over being annoyed and am now concerned)... I'm sorry he says... the ex had called him and asked him to come over to talk-- talk turned into she wanted him back... and well - i was a really nice girl and he's sorry to do this to me (ya chicken shit bastard breaking up with me over the phone) but he was going back to her....
A few years later, I ran into someone who knew him.. and turns out - he married the girlfriend.. .she cheated on him no less than 5 times before she finally cleaned out his bank account - and ran off with one of this friends... Karma - she is a bitch...