Ok guys, I know that this thread seemed to have yielded all of the advice possible, and I appreciate it, but it's time for an update.
Ok guys, I know this sounds mean and all of that, but I'm being totally serious. We alluded to the possibility of this girl being mentally unstable during the course of this thread right? Well, I'm no psychologist (yet anyway, Psyche major though, but that is NOT a proclamation of expertise, not at ALL), but I am now pretty much thoroughly convinced of it. I'll elaborate........
He caught her cheating on him......again. And this time, true to his word, he dumped her. Well of course he's sad and shit, but he stays strong for once. Well, once she realizes that she can't just walk over him anymore, she just loses it man. Listen to what she did and tell me this isn't extremely fucked up: She sent him some text messages telling her that she had taken a lethal dose of medication and was dying (he didn't get the messages til three hours after they were sent). The next day she tells him that she was rushed to the hospital, where her stomach was pumped, saving her life. Well, he finds out from her best friend, in a rather clever manner, that NONE of that is true. NONE OF IT.
Is that not just so fucked up? To play with someone's emotions on that kind of level?
But I'm not done yet my friends. Oh no. She then proceeds to send him many, MANY text and voice messages, because he won't respond/answer. Well, that's not that weird in itself, but the thing is, one text/voicemail would be about how she was gonna fuck this other guy and there wasn't anything Cuz could do about it and how much she hated him, and the very NEXT message would be a proclamation of her undying love for Cuz, and how she can't live without him. What.......the...........fuck!?!?
She then shows up at our fucking house. Beating on the door, will NOT leave, until Cuz talks to her. Eventually he is forced to, and that was all it took. They're now back together. I swear guys, I just don't know. He openly admits that he thinks she's crazy, but yet............I mean, I just don't get it.
I want to mind my own business, but I seriously am becoming worried about his well-being. This chick seems like stalker material, and after the behavior I've seen as of late, I wouldn't put anything past her.
NOW what do you guys think???
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