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Originally Posted by raeanna74
Yup this is frequently how it is. I've been to clubs that allow single men and often the ratio of male to female ends up being 3 to 1 or greater. In that kind of atmosphere the men (often the single men) seem to have the idea that the woman are there just to have sex with as many men as they can. Some can get pushy or even cut in almost on another guy. This is the rarity of course but it happens more frequently with clubs that allow single guys or at least don't restrict the number of single guys at each party.
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Makes sense. That's pretty much what I feared when I first thought of this (well besides the obvious, much more horrible things that could happen).
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Originally Posted by raeanna74
No matter what you should make sure you go to a club where the number one rule is "No means no." Most are this way but some can be more lax than others.
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Thanks for the warning! I didn't know that it wasn't strictly enforced at all of these clubs. It kind of seemed like a given to me. I checked the websites of all the clubs I considered again, and it looks like I made as safe a choice as I could make - "NO MEANS NO" is all over the top of the rules and FAQ page in red. At least I know it's a priority for the people in charge.
It's looking like I'm going to start off with a smallish gathering early next month. I'm a little too busy to hit one of the bigger parties before then and the people who responded to my email wrote that a smaller party was the recommended way to begin. Any advice about what to expect from the experienced ladies around here would be much appreciated.
