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I've been thinking about this for a while now, and in the last year I've made some efforts to create non-traditional sexual situations for myself with varied success. As I read through this thread, it occurred to me that I might want to try a more guided, structured approach so I just signed up with a local club as a single (though I may continue with the lifestyle as part of a couple after I talk to my main partner and gauge his interest). At first, I was a little surprised to find that membership is pretty much exclusively for single women and couples - no single men. There was only one club in the city that recently started letting single men, and only one night a week. That aspect - I chose one of the other clubs - made it feel a lot safer for me when I decided to sign up. I wonder... is it like that most places?
Anyway, I'm not sure yet how soon I'll be going to my first event, but I'll be happy to share my thoughts as I move forward.
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