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Be a tease. For one inane reason or another, human sexuality seems to be centered around teasing. I'm not really sure why, but its true. I've never seen a relationship start where one person didn't make fun of the other person, in truly joking manner.
I think it might have to do with it being a measure of wit -- if someone jokes about your attire or demeanor, it's a test of your wit (and consquently intelligence and enthusiasm) when you reply. If a girl says "Isn't it a little cold to be wearing sandals..?" and you reply with "Unrrghh..gurgle.. no?" it's a pretty surefire bet that she's gone. Likewise, if you approach a girl.. use something witty (it doesn't necessary have to be mocking) to engage her and wait for a similarly worded reply. Her reply is telling -- both about her personality and her level of interest.
Be careful not to just blatantly make fun of them, of course.
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