kick him out. He is using you and your other room mate and is nothing but a bum. Personally I don't know how you could have even allowed him back into your home without a job. People have to work to earn money, regardless of what their financial ambitions are in life, you have to A- Shelter yourself and B- Feed yourself. Everything else is personal gravy. It's not hard to find a job but it is hard to find a job if you sleep all day. It's also easy for him to just let it go because you guys let him ride you like a pony. Here's a sample of what you should say on the 14th.
"did you get a job?"
"No."
"Do you have rent money? Clean up your shit?"
"No"
"Alright, get out."
end ofstory. Have someone there to support you, even physically remove him from your home. He can come and get his stuff when he's gotten a job. He doesn't deserve to be in your home, plain and simple. He's a bum and a mooch. I know that sounds mean, and that despite the fact that your not his friend... he's your friend and you don't want to be mean to him. That's understandable. But you got to get him out of your house or you'll be letting people walk all over you for a long time to come.
Opps as I finish this I realize the date... lol now I am wondering what happened
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