Yosho.....
How do I say this: This girl is not on the lookout for a new boyfriend, she's looking for several. IF, and I find this hard to believe, she did not break up with her ex for this, she definitely will with you, (or you will dump her.) Here's why: Human beings like variety, point-blank-done. No matter how faithful you say you are you will slip someday, and when you do, you'll discover something surprising; you STILL want the person you are with to be strictly yours, and the same probably goes for the girl/guy you schlepped them with. What does all this babble mean? You won't be able to stand other guys being with her, even in an "open" relationship, which, when feelings are involved, only works one-way and under the condition that the other party not know that they are in an "open" relationship. If you feel anything, however remote, for this girl, my suggestion is to drop this in order to avoid a lifetime (or semesters) of pain.
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