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Originally Posted by maleficent
....just make sure that you and Sean are on the same page. The two of you could sit him down one last time and tell him -- if the two of you do it - then you don't have to be uber assertive...
How is Andy paying rent and his share of the bills?
good luck
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Definitely make sure you and Sean are thinking along the same lines. I had a guy like Andy who turned a couple of nights on my couch into a couple of months. I wanted to get rid of him after the first month; my roommate disagreed. There was trouble all around.
The vast majority here have got it right, but let me say it again just in case you missed it. You're not this guy's mom, his caretaker, maid, personal assistant or hotel manager. He's messy, he's lazy and he's irritating the 'good' roommate. Sit the guy down. Lay down the law. It's your place under your rules. If Andy doesn't like what you and Sean have to say...well, tough.
Good luck, it's going to get a bit harder before it gets better, but, oh, when it does get better....