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Andy's sponging off you. He's not a friend. You're not his mother. You are enabling him to remain immature and self-centered without consequences.
Stop it. He'll remain this way as long as YOU let him. Give him "The Gift of Independence." Throw his stuff in a box and put it in his car, change the locks. Seriously, he doesn't appear to give a rat's patooty about *your* feelings, in any way, from what you have written. Time to cut the apron strings that shouldn't have been there in the first place.
By the way, you are sending a pretty strong signal to Sean that the things he does aren't valued, imo. Aren't you concerned about offending Sean, the guy who does do what you like?
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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