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He's not hopeless - i don't think anyone really is... but he doesn't have to do anything because he's got people to do it for him. you aren't his mother... and you are honestly acting like it - cleaning up after him -giving him a to do list (that isn't getting done) making sure that he's looking for a job - I'm assuming he's over age 18... well -- sink or swim time... Time to stop acting like a teenager still living under mom and dad's roof.
If he's got no place to go on the 14th - well sucks to be him... maybe that's what he needs to give him that kick in the ass... but regardless - it's not your problem. You've given him an ultimatum - ultimatums are useless unless you plan on sticking to it - just make sure that you and Sean are on the same page. The two of you could sit him down one last time and tell him -- if the two of you do it - then you don't have to be uber assertive...
How is Andy paying rent and his share of the bills?
good luck
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