Ok. So we haven't really sat down and had a big talk, but we have mini relationship talks here and there. Today, she told me that she was going to go clubbing with her girlfriends some time this week and asked if that was ok with that. I was pretty uneasy at first, thinking of other guys trying to get with her, but at the same time, I don't want to be that jealous/insecure/controlling boy friend. I told her it was ok, but I think she could tell I was holding back.
So I'm going to call her tomorrow so we can chat about it a little. I have no reason not to trust her and I want to tell her that I'm cool with it. But at the same time, part of me feels I should be a little protective. I know I know, we live in different times where women should not be a man's possession, but at the same time ... well, clubs are teeming with attractive and horny men. Not exactly the place I want my girlfriend to be...
Thoughts?
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