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Wow, all those questions she has for you... sounds exactly the way I was, when I was 19 and had very strong religious beliefs. I think I probably asked the exact same questions, come to think of it. And to be honest, my inflexibility on those issues is what drove me apart from my boyfriend at the time... it was too much, too soon, for both of us. But then again, neither of us really knew ourselves, nor did we know how to communicate properly.

Listen to Ratbastid, as usual. Tachion and Cynthetiq also have great advice. Give 100%, don't play games. There's no other way to go. And let us know how it goes.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran