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Originally Posted by Seaver
I have to second AoS on this one... huh? It's not a joke if you're the only one at the party who gets it.
Anyways a good compliment that women LOVE to hear, but NEVER do... is their shoes. They put more emphasis on those than probably any part of their outfit, and no guy ever notices. Compliment those and watch their face light up.
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If some guy complimented me on my shoes, my gaydar would immediately start ticking. Seriously. Don't compliment her on her shoes. Don't compliment her on her clothes. Compliment her on herself. Say you couldn't help but notice how striking her eyes are, or how you like blondes, redheads, brunettes--whatever she is.
As a female who recently finished college, I can tell you the trick to talking to girls at parties is: be yourself. Don't be overeager, and be as relaxed as you can manage. I see too many guys ruin what they have with girls by being overeager. If they don't want to talk to you, that's their problem. College is full of people--there are always other fish in the sea. And don't expect to ever find something serious at a party--that is the LAST place on Earth you want to look. But seriously--if a woman seems disinterested, just move on. I also see guys do this all the time--they get hung up on the woman who doesn't want to talk to them. DON'T BE THAT GUY. You'll just turn yourself into a pest, or a guy they know they can manipulate down the road. Unless the party is a total sausagefest, there's bound to be a woman who will talk to you.