Newbie here ladies. Something that has been happening lately with my husband and I - I just can't seem to get to an orgasm without using the vibrator. He will be going down on me and I'm RIGHT THERE - on the edge - but I just can't seem to go over.
I never tried toys prior to my husband - it was just the fingers for me. But I've learned to like the vibrator!
I only use it when we're having sex - don't use it by myself. Can't remember the last time I masterbated without him being involved.
The o's I get from the vibrator are different from the ones I get from his mouth. The o's from his mouth are deeper and I can ride them longer. The ones from the vibrator are stronger but I can't ride them at all - too strong.
Any thoughts or suggestions?