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My consolation goes out to you Brian. But having seen this happen all around me, I have to give (and emphasize) the advice previously given:
1) Don't lose your cool - be professional
2) Document, document, document (do this: document. everything. refusal to grant visitations, phone calls not returned, access barred.) Lawyers live for documentation.
3) Get a Lawyer. Reasonable and civil conversations do not equal firm contracts. You have rights and need to have them protected. You have a daughter. Your wife performed a (i gather) completely unexpected and unreasonable act. You need to be compensated, and your daughter needs to know that you are there.
finally, you need to steel yourself to feeling lousy. I don't know if this was out of the blue, or expected, if you are legally married or common law, but regardless, you must feel like shit now, and obviously feeling justifiably wronged.
Try not to let your emotions rule your actions until you get yourself organized.
then go and have a decent cry.
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You said you didn't give a fuck about hockey
And I never saw someone say that before
You held my hand and we walked home the long way
You were loosening my grip on Bobby Orr
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