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She wants to have a talk, have a talk. Like ratbstid, I'm not worried about how early it is. Religious beliefs in particular can be a sticking point and the rule of thumb is that it's better to get this stuff out of the way early.
If I had to guess, I'd say it's possible she's been burned in the past and is therefore looking for clear-cut rules out of the gate.
There's not subtext here. You just sit down and have the talk she wants to have, Be honest and forthright and listen to what she has to say.
In terms of relationship expectations think of it less as a time thing and more about emotional involvement. Let her know that you really do care about her and want to be with her and that it's not just a fling to you.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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