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Originally Posted by SecretMethod70
As for how to address the situation, based on the fact you say you've told her this many many times it seems like it's simply not going to change (which, by the way, is also extremely rude - it's not like it's difficult to simply get exactly what you asked for instead of changing it around and adding things now that you've expressed that desire). So, I'd either accept that you're never going to get what you ask for and live with the inconsiderate behavior, or stop asking her or letting her do things for you in the first place.
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Sorry to say it, but I pretty much agree. For whatever reason, she seems to believe that she is in the right and won't listen to you and I don't see how that could necessarily change. If you've told her not to do it in the past and she still continues, she's just ignoring you and continuing with the behavior she wants. Don't believe it's just a "girl" thing though, I assure you there are many women out there who don't do this and probably some men who do. At least this women has never felt the need to act that way. *shrug*
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