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Originally Posted by dlishsguy
thats just her telling you the following:
1)"she tells me that I'm not just another one of her guys" - i like you but.... i dont like good guys, i like bad boys' cocks when it comes down to the crunch.
2)"that I'd be taking a risk on her " - in 'x' amount of time... - sorry i found someone else to fuck. thanks for taking the risk on me, better luck next time.
3)"but that it might be worth it in the end" - worth it for who? for her cos u became her biatch. she went round fucking other guys while u had one-itis. thats just her saying stick around and fuck me till i find someone who fucks me better.
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I can't believe it... this girl has been up front, straight out telling it how it is, and now you want to rip apart her honesty and make her out to be this bad, immoral liar or something!
She's called it and now
yosho has the problem.
Can yosho handle the fact that this girl wants to keep the relationship open... that is the question here.
yosho, like others have said, these are your emotions. Either you go for the ride or you don't. A growing experience this may be if you go for the ride, the challenge being maintaining your feelings, or overcoming your need for one-itis. But if you do go for it, remember that it is your one-itis and your only decision is if you think that is the only way to maintain a relationship.
I know of people who find open relationships more meaningful than others who limit themselves to 'one' other. It is only the capacity to maintain the self that enables your ability to have meaningful and healthy relationships, whether with only one other partner or more.
How far down the rabbit hole are you willing to go?