There isn't any magic way you can make someone see the light. All you can do is point out that it is there, and let them act as they may. Eventually your friend will realize what you are saying right now, but hammering it into him won't do anything except make him resent you.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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