Borla

Apply the same principle to any more important situation then.

Let's say we are planning a vacation. She says she'd like to go somewhere warm. I suggest making plans to go to Florida and lay on the beach for a few days. She agrees and says it sounds like a good idea (this part is key, because she doesn't warn me things are going to be different than we discussed). I tell her to make the travel arrangements, I'll get the time off, and we'll have some fun. We go to get on the plane, and I find out we're going to Bora Bora. I ask what happened to going to Florida. She says "well, I figured you wanted to go to the beach, so I thought if Florida was good, Bora Bora would be better!!" No discussions of it costing thousands more dollars, no discussions of any reason other than the beach for choosing Florida, no discussions of whether Bora Bora is a better choice, just "improving" on the idea without any communication.

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