This stuff still bothers you? I reduced that irritation to low grade after the second year. My common reply now to, "would you like something to drink?" is "I'll get it in just a second."
As for snacks, she just does it. I no longer hope for or specify snack construction. I also don't make them myself because I do not have the internal clock that has snack time programmed into it. I don't dress myself either, or ask for certain clothes.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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