Yeah man, I know where you're coming from. I've definitely had to deal with this before. I'm sure there are many different ways to attack this problem, and I'm sure something different works for everyone, but I discovered a technique that has thus far seemed to work rather well for me. It seems simple, and it is, but it's effective (again, for me).
It's called something like the start-and-stop technique, I believe. It basically is just masturbating (dry) until the point of climax and then stopping right before you actually get off, and then starting again, for roughly fifteen minutes. Do that however often you like until you can last fifteen minutes without stopping (you can slow down and whatnot during the transition period). Afterwards, just continue the same technique with lubricant, once again until you reach your ultimate goal of fifteen minutes.
Apparently, this helps you understand how to better control your body and your excitement level. Which of course makes sense, but whatever it does, it has worked well for me.
Good luck.
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