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It really depends on who's asking and what it's for. But generally I think it's rude. I can't change the fact that when it happens to me I get irked. There are times though that it doesn't bother me at all. For example ..if a couple of us girls from work was going to see a movie and someone asked to come along. I wouldn't care. It's just a movie. But say my parents plan to come visit and all the sudden all my siblings call and say "hey guess what we're coming to and we are all staying at your place." I would be ticked.
A recent example of someone being rude. My parents came to visit. My mom went to work with me the first day. She loved it and I loathed it. She complained the entire time. I had to work again the next day and she said she didn't want to go this time. I told her that it would be better if she didn't. The next day I get ready to leave and she puts on her shoes and says she's coming. I kept the peace and let her come, but it irritated me.
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