A wise man once told me..
"If you ever find yourself with problems in the bedroom, just double-down on the oral."
That advice has yet to let me down.
Outside of that, alter slightly what you're doing. When I'm ontop I can control if I'm out to please her, which makes me last longer (The Seaver Conceiver dubbed by Suave lol). The grinding is more pleasurable to her than me, although it feels great I last much longer.
Work on your peeing muscles (forgot the name). Basically the muscles in your penis which you would contract to stop yourself from peeing, do these exercises throughout the day. When you find yourself on the verge, contract the muscles. This will help you in two ways, first it will prevent cumming for about 20 or so seconds. Second when you DO release... it'll be an explosive orgasm instead of a just regular one.
Open up with the Lotus Blossom position. Girls love it, and because of the position it will generally give you a lot longer stamina. Generally my SO climaxes off this so when it's my turn I can just lay her down on her back or bend her over for some good ol' doggy style (what male doesnt cum after only a couple sec of good doggy?).
And finally, if after all these tips you're still at 10second assasin, simply change positions when you're about to cum. This, however, might backfire if she's about to cum. Plus a good sex session generally includes no more than 3 position switches, because it resets everyone back to 0 orgasm wise.
Anyways, enjoy life free of the rubber. Seriously... having sex with a condom is like eating food with the platic wrap still on.
Last edited by Seaver; 01-03-2006 at 10:45 AM..
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