^^ Yes, I have to agree with this general approach.
Also, it seems pretty likely, just from what you've said, that she is an alcoholic, not just an emotional abuser. That would explain the drinking, the mood swing, the apologies, his reaction, etc.
She needs help, and quick - for the sake of your brother and his children, as well as herself. Talking to him alone is your best bet - he's not going to react normally around her.
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