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Alright, I know how you feel.. to a point i guess as I've had some of those feelings years ago with a girl.... You could have all the sex in the world and you would still feel that way. That feeling of not being wanted/desired. I guess for me it was open, honest communication that made me feel closer to her, when we were lying in bed, close to each other and talked about "us",, and I mean guinenly talked. I KNEW it real and honest and that made me feel great. You mentioned that she does other things for you.... these things I would think are her way of telling you that she does care and want you, otherwise she wouldnt put the effort into doing them for you. I learned long ago that it truely is the little things in a relationship that make it special. And when she can make you feel like the most important guy in the world with just words alone (read.--> open/honest communication) than you know you have something special.
It also sounds like you have a problem with the way she see's sex, as just "fucking" as you put it. And you want to make love. Two styles, two different emotional outcomes. here's my question/suggestion.. How is the foreplay? Would long, sensual foreplay give you the desire that your looking for? Does she give you foreplay, or just get down to business? Maybe you can have the best of both worlds... maybe not.. well give it a shot and let us know how it goes. best of luck.
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