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Originally Posted by crxforum
Guys like you who obviously do this "nice guy to get laid thing" make me sick.
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It takes one to know one, i guess.
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I learned a few years ago that being nice to someone when you are able to be nice is a good thing and that only good things can come out of it.
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Except when you complain about how people have taken advantage of your niceness.
Fair enough, though. Every where i mentioned sex or getting laid, replace it with something about wanting a romantic relationship. It still applies.
It seems to me like you've had a completely thorough discussion about your future with this lady completely in your head. Where does she come in? If you really cared about being her friend, you'd see what she thought about you wanting to be more than her friend, instead of deciding that its a lost cause without even mentioning it to her. Romantic relationships, especially long term ones, thrive on open, honest communication. If you can't even go out on a limb enough to tell her how you feel about her, what makes you think that you could even make a relationship work?