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Ok umm, I'll try to keep this short.

So I met this new girl who goes to the same college as me, one night we were both kinda drunk and we hooked up and had sex.

At first, we both thought it was just a fling, no big deal, but over the next few weeks, I've been talking to this girl a lot. Right now it's break for us so she's in NYC and I'm somewhere upstate, so all we can do is talk on the phone. However, I talk to this girl for hours everyday, I really like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me too.

Now the problem is that once we start discussing where we're headed, she starts saying how she isn't ready for a relationship (since she recently broke up with her ex). She also wants the freedom to mess around with other guys, something she has done at least 3 times since I started talking to her. She also mentioned the possibility of an open relationship with me.

I really don't want an open relationship, I don't know if I could handle her messing around all the time. At the same time, I think I really have feelings for this girl and I know we definitely have a connection. I'm just not sure what to do anymore. I think that her messing around with other guys is eventually going to really bother me, but apart of me still wants to take the chance and hope that she's ready to settle down in the near future.

Also, she tells me that I'm not just another one of her guys, that I'd be taking a risk on her but that it might be worth it in the end...but I don't know if I believe her.

advice? Thanks.

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