Sorry i thought I already mentioned this. I would be ecstatic with once a day, but I realize this may be very-much-wishful thinking
It actually occurs once every 10 days or so (about a week and a half). Hard to give actualy numbers because sometimes we'll go maybe 3 times in a week or so, but then sometimes there'll be like a 2 week long dry spell.
Before considering giving advice, I should mention some more information. She is understandably quite stressed a lot of the time, being a university student, and furthermore she has bouts of eczema pretty bad, which wreaks havoc on her physical and emotional well-being. However, I must restate what my problem is. I am not worried about being 'blue-balled'... as I stated, I can release this myself. My problem is that I really don't feel wanted/needed/desired by her most of the time because she seldom wants to 'be with me' in that way. I know stuff is rough for her, and I'm quite supportive about it. But after like a week of this, man I'm ready to launch. And the thing that's bad is that the desire doesn't really seem to pick up when she's in a good phase
Anyway, I think that's enough for now. Any more questions just ask.