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Women are a wonderful puzzle....and no two will be the same (thank the Gods), that said.....Sex is ALWAYS going to be an adventure, with every freakin one of 'em. Realize there is no "Right" way to be intimate, and it can be work at times.....but generally worth the effort. There was a time in our history when humans screwed to have babies....that was it, we have evolved socially to enjoy it for the pleasure it brings.....For The Pleasure It Brings (worth repeating). If you get pleasure from it in different ways than she does....well....you are Human, and so is she. The perception of "Just Fucking" you see may very well be yours alone.....we cant know, and likely you wont either unless you ask, and listen.
My point is....Sex will never be a purely bliss inducing experience....but the Bliss is most definately there, if we decide to let it happen. In time, it becomes the primary reasoning for intercourse......that and watching the look on her face when you...uh...give her the cookies.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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