Originally Posted by Rodney

Allen is probably a decent-enough guy; he just hasn't grown up to the idea yet that if a friend of his is doing something he wants to do, he can't automatically go along, too. Family life doesn't teach this; people are always included. And he's probably an extroverted and somewhat assertive individual who likes to assume that he's always welcome and, with the force of his expectation and assumption, actually gets included by people like you who don't want to make a fuss. It works for him to do this. He probably has a great future in sales.